Seven Strategies for Handling Difficult Questions – What to Say When You Don’t Know the Answer
Honesty is the only policy when presenting. Blatantly admitting, “I don’t know”, in front of an audience can be a credibility disaster. What to do?
No one can know the answer to every question. It’s how the inevitable is handled that separates the amateurs from the Pros.
Use the following Seven Strategies to field even the toughest questions with tact and poise.
1. Reflection
Repeat the question and reflect it back to your audience, “Does anyone here have any experience with that?”
When you allow the audience to help you, they will save you without ever realizing it. In fact, the audience will revere you because adults love to be involved and share their knowledge. After you have fielded all contributions, summarize, and add your own ideas, if any have been sparked.
Summarizing at the end helps you to maintain control and authority. Always repeat questions before answering for the same reason.
2. I’ll Get Back to You
This trusted standard works well if you do Three Things…
- Write the question down. Be conspicuous. Make sure everyone knows you are writing the question down. I go so far as telling the audience, “I am writing this question down.”
- Tell the questioner exactly when you will get back to them. Be honest. Then do it. Can you get back to them by the end of the day? If it is an allday program, can you get back to them after lunch?
- Be sure to get the questioner’s contact information if you don’t have it.
These Three Things give this Strategy power. This is not smoke and mirrors. It is real-time Customer Service- go the extra mile, expand your knowledge, impress your audience.
3. Defer to the Expert
This is a more sophisticated version of the Reflection technique.
Sometimes a question is legitimately outside your area of expertise. You may be a marketing expert, and someone asks a question about engineering. The question requires an engineer.
If there is an engineer in the room you could say, “Sally, you’re an engineer. Do you have any insights into that?” If there are no engineers in the room, state that you will confer with an engineer and get back to them .
Notice I have just combined two techniques.
4. Compliment the Questioner
Two Things make this Strategy effective…
- Rarity Some presenters respond to EVERY question with, “Great question.” If you do this, break the habit immediately. Otherwise, you will lose one of the most effective techniques in your toolbox when you don’t know the answer.
This Strategy works, when sincere, because audience’s love to be complimented. They like to “stump” the teacher. The audience becomes focused on how smart they are instead of judging the presenter.
You can also combine this technique with I’ll Get Back to You .
5. Answer a Question with a Question
Sometimes questions are too narrow or too general to answer. Reserve the right, as the expert, to open a question up or close it down by asking a question in response.
Once upon a time I was a software trainer. One day a woman asked me a very specific question, “What does that button do?” I had no idea, but I didn’t confess, “I don’t know.”
Instead, I asked her a question, “What is your goal in pushing that button?” She elaborated and explained what she wanted to accomplish. I knew a way to help, and it didn’t involve pushing that button!
She was happy. I was honest, credible, helpful, and very happy.
6. Parallel Answer
If you don’t know the bull’s eye answer to a question, offer what you do know quickly to demonstrate some credibility and then combine with a previous technique.
Many moons ago, when I was a software trainer, I used to be an expert in Lotus, a now extinct spreadsheet package. As Microsoft Excel eclipsed Lotus, I had to learn Excel so I could teach it. I was on a learning curve. Sometimes I would be asked a question about Excel that I didn’t know the answer to, but I did know the answer in Lotus.
Quickly I would say, “I know that is possible in Lotus. I can find out if that is possible in Excel. I’m writing this question down. I’ll research it at the break and get back to you .” Refrain from droning on and on about your parallel knowledge.
Brevity is the key to this technique. Be sure to combine with Reflection or I’ll Get Back to You to hit the bull’s eye answer for your audience.
7. Set Rules
Prevention is the best medicine. You can avoid many Difficult Questions by Setting Rules in the beginning. Whenever you present, you are the Leader. So, take the Lead and Set Rules up front.
If you Set Rules and follow them, the audience respects you. If you make rules up as you go, you lose credibility. This has been my experience.
The number of Rules you set will vary depending on the topic and your audience. When I taught Programming Languages and Software, I set lots of Rules because I knew the questions would be many and varied.
Example… I would start a Software Seminar by saying, “I welcome general questions at any time about anything on the Agenda. If you have questions about a specific project or a subject outside the Agenda, please see me at a break for private consultation. Because we have limited time, I may stop taking questions and comments sometimes to make certain we cover every Agenda topic today.”
Setting Rules is critical. Lead and Set Rules conversationally at the beginning of your presentation to Prevent most Difficult Questions.
No one can know the answer to every question. It is possible to handle the inevitable situation with honesty and credibility like a Pro. Use these Seven Strategies to enjoy Difficult Questions, learn from them, and impress your audience.
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How to handle questions during a presentation
Posted by Belinda Huckle | On January 29, 2022 | In Presentation Training, Tips & Advice
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1. Tell the audience in advance when you will be taking questions
2. anticipate questions in advance, 3. realise that questions are a good thing, 4. make eye contact with the questioner, 5. always take a brief pause before launching into your answer, 6. be sure that you understand the question they are asking or point that they’re making, 7. acknowledge how valuable the question they’re asking is, 8. always keep your cool, 9. be honest if you don’t know the answer, 10. answer in sections if the question is a long one, 11. check-in with the questioner after you have given your response, tailored and personalised presentation skills training, follow us on social media for more great presentation tips:.
You’ve prepared your presentation, practised it a dozen times and you’re ready to go. But what’s the one thing that might throw you off course, undermine your confidence and your credibility? An awkward question. One that comes at an inopportune time, or one that’s difficult, or one with a complicated answer, or one you can’t answer! So it will come as no surprise that a question we get asked frequently centres around how to handle questions during a presentation!
Think about your work or everyday life, when someone asks you a question, how do you usually respond? Do you take a minute to think about your answer before launching into an explanation?
Do you interpret their question as a challenge of your authority/knowledge/intelligence and become defensive? Do you answer a question with another question? Did you notice that we’re asking a lot of questions right now…?
There are seemingly a thousand ways to answer a question and the kind of answer you give and how you deliver it can go a long way in helping to build positive relationships with other people, as well as facilitating constructive and helpful debates and conversations about certain issues and topics.
This is especially true in workplace environments, where you may be giving a presentation to your client, or delivering the quarterly business results to your team.
Questions may arise from the audience , which do have the potential to throw your presentation off course or set a bad tone in the room if not handled well. Some people can even inadvertently come across as rude, curt or dismissive when answering questions, simply because they feel attacked or they’re rushing to get back to their presentation before they lose their train of thought.
So in today’s blog post you’ll learn how to handle questions during a presentation. We’ve given you some specific advice to follow when answering questions and how to always remain courteous, on-track and respectful of the question-asker – so that in turn, you look professional and knowledgeable.
One of things that can sometimes throw you off course is being asked a question when you are mid-flow through a presentation or least expect it. It can interrupt your train of thought and momentarily put you off balance.
One way to avoid this is to agree in advance when you will be taking questions; anytime, at the end of each section, or at the end of the presentation. This way you won’t be surprised when they come up.
Whilst you are preparing your slides or deck, think about the questions you might be asked around the content and formulate your answers ahead of time.
Look at the content through the eyes of the audience and try to anticipate where their views might differ or where they might need clarification. If you are presenting to your executive board , you might be questioned on how your ideas affect or support the bottom line. Whereas a presentation to middle management on streamlining processes might raise problems about additional resources for support.
Therefore, is there any additional data or information that you could take along to the presentation that might help you to answer some of these questions?
You won’t be able to predict every question in advance, but by giving it some thought it will give you a foundation on which to base your answers and hopefully make it clearer to you how to handle questions during a presentation that you might be expecting!
It’s important to remember first and foremost that the fact that people are asking you a question in the first place means that they’re interested and engaged in what you have to say.
Either they want more information, they need clarification, they’re curious to know more, or they want to test your thinking, logic, and recommendations.
So, a question should always be taken as a good sign, and met with an extra boost of enthusiasm and confidence on your side .
Unfortunately, we’ve seen all too many presenters use the fact that someone has asked a question as an opportunity to adjust their microphone, check their slides, straighten their clothes, drink some water, wander around the room or stage… And we can’t say how much of a big no-no this is! It is definitely not how to handle questions during a presentation!
Becoming immediately and significantly distracted when someone is asking you a question can make you look as though you don’t really care about the question being asked, and can be quite disrespectful.
So be sure to maintain eye contact, nod regularly , and give the questioner your full attention.
Remember that it’s not just about your verbal response, your body language can be a powerful tool or a dead give away if you are feeling anxious or unconfident.
So be sure to show your interest in the question and questioner.
No matter whether someone is asking for some data or facts from you, questioning your way of doing things, or simply asking for more information, the first thing to do is to pause briefly after they’re finished asking their question, even if you know what your answer will be straight away.
There are 3 main reasons for this:
- It gives the person time to finish their question, and add any clarifying points.
- It shows that you are taking the time to consider the question, which shows respect.
- It gives you time to think of the best answer, and deliver it eloquently, rather than launching in, rushing through, and coming across as confused or uncertain.
One of the best communication techniques in life and business is to clarify and even repeat or paraphrase a question or point someone is making to you, as it helps avoid misunderstandings.
This is no less true while giving presentations as well, so when needed be sure to ask the questioner to expand or fine tune their point.
Remember, if you don’t understand the question, chances are you’ll give the wrong answer.
Repeating or paraphrasing a question also has the added bonus of ensuring that everyone else in the room has heard the question as well. Plus it gives you some extra thinking time too!
Don’t forget, if there is someone in the room who can add additional weight to your answer or expand in another area which is relevant, don’t be afraid to invite them to contribute also.
The old saying, “There are no silly questions” definitely rings true here, so you need to communicate this by making the questioner feel that their question was valid and constructive.
This needs to be done genuinely, and there are plenty of good ways to express an acknowledgement before giving your response:
- “That’s a question I asked myself”
- “That’s a question a lot of people have asked us recently”
- “I’m not surprised you’re asking that given …”
- “I think the point you’re making is a good one”
- “That’s a question we have discussed at length within our team”
- “Many thanks for your question. You’ve reminded me to touch on …”
- “In most situations, you’d be right, and I would agree with you”
- “That’s a really interesting point and not one we had considered”
It’s a good idea to practise these regularly, but always make sure the way you acknowledge the question is genuine or you’ll sound rehearsed and not authentic or credible as a presenter.
If a question is off-topic and not relevant to the presentation you might want to ask where the question is coming from, answer briefly and offer to give a more detailed response at a later date.
When it comes time to actually give your answer don’t get angry or defensive, no matter what the question is. This is not how to handle questions during a presentation in a professional, credible way!
We’ve all seen those video clips of celebs or politicians losing their temper after an interviewer asks them a less-than-favourable-question, and the only one who almost always comes off looking silly is the interviewee themselves.
So if you find yourself in a similar situation, even if the question was intended to be intentionally provocative, losing it or getting visibly emotional will make you come across as immature and unprofessional. If you feel yourself getting emotional, simply ask if you can get back to them at a later time.
We all have to admit to bluffing our way through an answer to a question we’re just not 100% sure of every now and then… But a presentation is not the time to do it.
Making up an answer or trying to dance around the question completely is a surefire way to come across like you don’t know what you’re talking about, which can really undermine your confidence for the rest of the presentation. Instead, here are some options for managing questions when you don’t know the (entire) answer.
- Tell them what you do know. E.g. if someone asks “What is the current rate of inflation?” you may not know the exact answer so you could reply by saying “I’m not sure of the precise rate of inflation right now, though I can look that up for you if you like. What I can tell you is that it is rising faster now than it has done for many years.”
- Tell them why you don’t know. E.g. if someone were to ask the above inflation question, you could reply by saying “The rate of inflation is extremely volatile at the moment. Let me look up the most recent data and get that figure to you straight after the presentation.”
- Tell them someone else knows. Again, using the inflation question, you might reply “That’s a hot topic at the moment and our CFO has just published a report looking at the current rate of inflation and the drivers behind it. I’ll email that report to you later this week.”
- Tell them you don’t know. It’s not ideal to admit that you don’t have the answer to hand but it’s better than making up the answer. In this scenario it’s imperative that you acknowledge the question so that you still come across as confident and in control rather than nervous and on the back foot. E.g you could say “That’s a very valid question you raise. I don’t have that data with me but I will send that information to straight after this presentation.”
Curly questions can really rock our confidence so stay calm, take your time and remember that no one expects you to know everything. You’re only human after all!
If the question is a particularly long one, ‘chunk’ up your answer into sections so your answer stays clear and concise.
For example, if someone asks you when a project is going to be completed, you might say:
“That’s actually a critical question as timings on this project are particularly tight (acknowledging worth). Based on our last status update, stage 1 will be completed by xxx, stage 2 by xxx and stage 3 by xxx.”
Or, if their question is multi-part, answer each part separately before moving onto the next.
You could say something like “And to address the second part of your question…”
After you finish your answer it’s important to check-in with the questioner to make sure that you’ve answered the question to their satisfaction. You can do this by simply asking:
- “Does that answer your question?”
- “Can I provide you with any more detail?”
Or, you can also check in non-verbally, such as by making eye contact with them and smiling. If you get a smile back, you can assume you’ve answered the question to their satisfaction. If you get a puzzled look or a frown, we recommend you follow up with a verbal check-in.
So, by learning how to handle questions during a presentation, following all these important points, and being thoroughly prepared before your presentation, it will help to calm your nerves and leave you feeling ready to engage with your audience, stimulate constructive conversations, all while looking confident, professional and in control.
And if you’re going back into the meeting room after a long period of remote working you can brush up on your in-person presentation skills by reading this blog .
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Belinda is the Co-Founder and Managing Director of SecondNature International. With a determination to drive a paradigm shift in the delivery of presentation skills training both In-Person and Online, she is a strong advocate of a more personal and sustainable presentation skills training methodology.
Belinda believes that people don’t have to change who they are to be the presenter they want to be. So she developed a coaching approach that harnesses people’s unique personality to build their own authentic presentation style and personal brand.
She has helped to transform the presentation skills of people around the world in an A-Z of organisations including Amazon, BBC, Brother, BT, CocaCola, DHL, EE, ESRI, IpsosMORI, Heineken, MARS Inc., Moody’s, Moonpig, Nationwide, Pfizer, Publicis Groupe, Roche, Savills, Triumph and Walmart – to name just a few.